Hakeem and Shay Dee were together for five years before their breakup. Following their separation, Hakeem made inflammatory comments about Shay Dee’s disability and personal hygiene in a video that has since gone viral, igniting a firestorm of reactions online.
The drama centers on a video lasting approximately 252.83 seconds. It appears to be a compilation of clips, possibly pulled from a live stream or social media platform. In it, Hakeem vents his frustrations about his relationship with Shay Dee, who has a disability.
He complains about having to assist her with everyday tasks—like opening water bottles or getting up from the couch—claiming it made him feel like a “slave.” His remarks escalate as he mocks her hygiene, alleging she had an unpleasant odor she tried to cover with perfumes and lotions, and ridicules her seizures, calling them “absent seizures” rather than “shaken seizures” to downplay their severity. Hakeem further insults Shay Dee with derogatory terms like “earthworm” and “squid head.”
Shay Dee doesn’t stay silent. In the same video, she fires back, accusing Hakeem of infidelity throughout their five-year relationship and hurling personal insults of her own, including references to his health issues like hemorrhoids. The video includes photos of the couple together, hinting at happier times, and features text overlays from accounts like “Dailytea47” and “elmvidzz,” showing the story’s traction online.
The incident first gained attention through an X post by @Raindropsmedia on May 22, 2025, at 21:44, which has racked up 8,102,191 views and 36,110 favorites. WorldStar further boosted its visibility with a post titled, “Cold-hearted Or Just Cruel? Dude Wilds Out On His Disabled Ex-wife, Calls Her An Earthworm & Mocks Her Seizures After 5 Years Of Being Together!”
Many users have slammed Hakeem for his lack of empathy, especially given the length of their relationship. One commenter asked, “Why date a person with a disability and get upset that they will need help with tasks?” Others rallied behind Shay Dee, praising her resilience and talents—one noted, “She’s actually a very talented rapper.” Some took a more speculative turn, with multiple users suggesting, “He is gay,” though no evidence supports this claim.
The clash between Hakeem and Shay Dee has become more than just a breakup—it’s a viral moment that’s forced a conversation about empathy, disability, and the digital age. As the video continues to circulate, drawing reactions from outrage to defense, it serves as a stark reminder of the challenges couples face and the power of social media to amplify their struggles.
